How to save the business?
Meera was thirty-eight years old and lived with her eight-year-old daughter, Anya.
Three years earlier, Meera had lost her husband unexpectedly. Since then, she had tried to become both mother and father to her little girl.
Her husband had left behind a small house. It was not luxurious, but it was their home—the place where Anya had grown up, where her husband’s photographs still hung on the wall, and where Meera felt she had at least one thing that could never be taken away from her.
But life had other plans.
Meera ran a small business selling handmade home products. Initially, the business did well. But slowly, sales declined. Costs increased. Customers disappeared. Every month, the losses became bigger.
The biggest problem was the house installment. “Another two months like this, and I won’t be able to pay it,” Meera thought.
She started waking up in the middle of the night.
What if I lose the house?
Where would she and Anya go?
How would she explain it to her daughter?
She tried everything.
She borrowed money.
She reduced expenses.
She worked longer hours.
She tried new products.
She approached new customers.
But nothing worked.
The more she tried to save the business, the more exhausted she became.
One evening, after looking at her bank balance, Meera broke down.
Anya came running to her.
“Mummy, why are you crying?”
Meera hugged her tightly.
“Nothing, sweetheart. Everything will be fine.”
But she wasn’t sure it would.
The next morning, Meera decided to meet an old wise man who lived nearby. People often went to him when they were confused about important decisions.
She told him everything. “My business is failing. I am losing money every month. If this continues, I won’t be able to pay the house installment. I am terrified that my daughter and I will lose our home. Please tell me what I should do.”
The wise man listened quietly. After a few moments, he asked, “Why do you need your business?”
Meera looked surprised.
“What kind of question is that? I need the business to earn money.”
The wise man smiled. “That’s not what I asked. Why do you need the business?”
Meera thought for a moment.
“To support myself and my daughter.”
“Anything else?”
“To pay the house installment.”
“Anything else?”
“No.”
The wise man leaned back.
“So, Meera, your problem is not that your business is failing.”
She looked confused.
“Then what is my problem?”
He replied,
“Your problem is that you need enough money every month to support your family and pay your house installment. You have assumed that the only way to get that money is through your business.”
Meera remained silent. The wise man continued.
“If your business gives you the money you need, that’s wonderful. But if it doesn’t, why must you keep fighting for the business?”
Meera had never thought about it that way.
“But what else can I do?”
“Get a job.”
“A job?”
“Yes. You have experience. You are capable. Find a job that gives you a stable income. Use that income to pay your installment. You don’t have to prove that your business can survive. You only have to make sure you and your daughter can survive.”
For the first time in months, Meera felt a strange sense of relief. Perhaps she had been fighting the wrong battle.
Within a few weeks, Meera found a job with a company that valued her experience. The salary wasn’t extraordinary. But it was steady.
Every month, money came into her account.
She paid the house installment.
She paid Anya’s school fees.
She bought groceries without worrying whether the next customer would come.
Slowly, the constant fear disappeared.
Her business eventually closed.
And surprisingly, Meera didn’t feel like a failure.
She realized something important:
The business had been her method of earning money—not her reason for living.
She had confused the method with the goal.
A year later, Meera’s life had changed completely. She was financially stable. Anya was happy at school. Their house was safe. Meera always wanted to learn singing. So she joined Music classes on the weekend. And then something unexpected happened. Through her classes, Meera met Arjun.
They started talking.
Then having coffee.
Then going for walks.
Arjun liked Meera’s strength and honesty. He saw her as a woman who had fought through a difficult period and found another way forward. For the first time in years, Meera felt she had companionship again.
One evening, sitting on the balcony of her home with Anya playing nearby, she looked around and smiled.
The house was still there.
Her daughter was happy.
She had a stable income.
And there was someone beside her who made life a little warmer.
She remembered the day she had gone to the wise man.
She had asked him,
“How do I Save my business.”
But the real question had been much simpler:
How do I Earn enough money to pay for the house?
Discussion Points
Many problems become difficult because we frame them incorrectly. Meera believed:
“My business must survive, otherwise I will lose my house.”
But the real problem was: “I need enough money to pay my house installment.”
Once she separated the goal from the method, she found another solution. The business was only one way to earn money. A job was another.
Sometimes, we become so attached to how we think a problem must be solved that we forget to ask the most important question:
What is the actual problem I am trying to solve? Frame the problem correctly, and you may discover that the solution is much easier than you thought.
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